There are a lot of misconceptions about being the nice girl. People often think she’s either putting on an act because “no one can be that nice all the time,” or she’s weak and unable to stand up for anything, including herself.

But the absolute worst is when they assume that what they see is what they get. Because the truth is, there is so much more to her than meets the eye.

She does her best to be kind to everyone because she knows that the world is a cruel place.

She legitimately makes an effort to give people the benefit of the doubt because she has been doubted.

She isn’t trying to be fake with her interactions with people, she is trying to give people chances she hasn’t always been given.

Despite what you may think, she isn’t weak. 

She just knows that some arguments aren’t worth it. She knows how to choose her battles, and she prefers avoiding confrontation unless it is necessary.

This is the way she stands up for herself. She prioritizes her happiness and well-being over the need to be right or win an argument.

The nice girl isn’t naive about the world around her.

She just chooses to face it with kindness as often as possible. Her smile and sensitivity aren’t her weaknesses, they are her suit of armor.

She puts her heart into everything she does, and she works hard to help other people feel comfortable enough to do the same.  She would rather make people feel included by her than intimidated by her.

She should not be underestimated.

She has ambitions and goals to crush, but she knows she doesn’t have to crush anyone else in pursuit of them. She does not feel threatened by other people’s success because she knows that there is room for everyone to thrive.

So, don’t be fooled. There is a fire behind the warmth of her smile. And, there is so much more brewing underneath the surface if you choose to really see her for everything she is.

 

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